Sometimes in life it is very important to judge yourself. I always say to my loved ones that you should try to find yourself. But the thing is that how can one do this since it is not an easiest task to do. I always want to find a solution to that question or task. One day one of my friend told me a story that i'm going to tell you very soon. And that story can tell you who you are and what are your various priorities in life.
Here I am going to tell you this story. On behalf of that your life preferences can be checked or analysed by yourself. One thing you should take care of is the actual meaning of the story. Try to find various emotions belonged to the story, I can guarantee that you will get the answers of all your questions.
So the Story begins.......
There is a boy named 'F' and a girl named 'L'. They loved each other very much and their love is pure and true. Obviously they want to marry each other but their parents are totally against it. 'F' always thought that one day their parents will allow us to marry.
As time goes, the girl's family started to find a good boy for marriage. 'L' expresses her fear to marry anyone other than 'F'. 'F' explains to 'L', " Dear I can understand what you are feeling now, because the same is with me too. But try to understand that firstly we are for our family. We can ran away and can marry but this is not a good option. One day when our parents see us unhappy, they they will definitely understand our love and allow us to marry. So give them some time to think about it, they are our true well-wishers." Listening to these words the girl 'L' agrees him totally and went back to her family.
After few days girl's family fixed her marriage with some other one. The girl don't want to marry any other except 'F', so at the wedding day in the evening she left her home and gone to the boy 'F'.
The boy was shocked to see the girl. He told her that Every love does not meant to be for marriage. We love each other and our love is as pure as Radha-Krishna. May be we are not meant to be made for each other. But our love continues the way it is..... In short we should follow our parent's decision. Please go home and accept him because this decision is made by your parents. We should not break our parent's heart for our selfishness. Girl again totally agreed with his lover's words. She decided to opt her parent's wish. So after meeting with her lover last time, she went back to her home.
Now the story took a critical move. When she reached to her home she saw a very different picture then that from what she had left. This time every one is sad and very tensed because at the wedding day the bride is not at her home. Seeing this the girl realizes that it is tough to go back to home and clarify all their doubts. And going back to 'F' is not possible. Then, "what should i do"? In this world, at this time, is not possible to live without marriage, and at "this stage who can marry me?" These are the few questions moving in her mind. She reminded some of her friends. She thought, "one of them can understand my conditions and can marry me". So she decided to go to them one by one.
Firstly she reminds a person 'S'. She went to him and told him all that what had happened. 'S' replied to 'L', " You can stay with me at my home as long as you want but I can't marry you." Girl thought that it's not our culture to live with a person with out marry. " I appreciate you suggestions, but i can not opt this because my culture does not allow me to do so", saying this girl 'L' leaves his home.
Then she reminded another friend named 'U'. But to go to him she has to cross a river. There is a boatman near the shores of the river. She told him the address, where she want to go. the boatman 'M' replied i'll make you reach to the address but my charge for this work is all your jewelery. Is this okay with you? Girl says yes because she had no option left. Boatman leaves her at the other end and took all her jewelery.
Then she reached to her friend 'U'. She tells him the story and put her proposal for marriage. After listening her story, the friend 'U' accepts her as his wife.
The story ends here. And if you listen it up completely, then here is a question for you that will tell you your preferences of life.
The question is...... There are 5 characters in this story namely (in short- a quick remind): 'F', 'L', 'S', 'M', 'U'. Which character do you like most? Make a list in descending order.
Have you done this??
If Yes quickly go to the end of the story page to know what F,L,S,M,U means....
Their meanings provide you the actual preferences for you in your life.
Here are the answers for this questions.....
In this story....
U stands for UNDERSTANDING
F stands for FAMILY,
L stands for LOVE,
M stands for MONEY,
S stands for SEX/LUST.
Now tell me how was the story??? and how much it fits to your character???
Please reply with comments or email or sms what you've learned from this story.
Enjoy the life... Take Care.
